I did grow slightly more comfortable in front of the man I married. Still, I was never one to walk around naked with or without my husband in the house. And then, everything changed. In a way. If you are important to your boyfriend, he will have spoken about you and what you do with your life in one way or another to his parents or to his siblings. If it becomes painfully obvious that he hasnt done so, he may well just not be the divulging type or he may be embarrassed to be in a relationship with you. 4. He Doesnt Instigate Sex. Showing consideration for you, your wishes, and your feelings is not his top priority. 9. He doesn&x27;t let you have boundaries. He asks inappropriate personal questions early on. He rushes you and the relationship. He sets himself up as the authority on every area of your life including family, friends, your working life, and even your finances.